DMV Matchmaking | The Application

Welcome!

Your journey to an intentional connection starts here.

This questionnaire takes about 60 minutes because we’re seeking to understand your values, lifestyle, and goals.

A Few Essentials:

Finish in one sitting: Your progress in the form will not be saved automatically. Set aside an hour, grab a snack, and dive in.
Be honest: The more honest you are in your responses, the better we’re able to find genuine alignment with prospective matches.
Logic vs. Chemistry: We handle the strategy; the chemistry is up to you.
The Big Picture: We don't match on a strict 1:1 ratio for every variable. We may prioritize a deep values-alignment over a specific age or race preference to find you a holistic match.
The Selection: Completion does not guarantee a Match Day Invitation." We only invite you to Match Day if we believe we’ve found you a high-potential connection.

Check out our Upcoming Events page to see when our next Match Day event will be.

Let's begin the journey to finding your ideal partner!

Section 1: About You

First name

Last name

If you are matched and attend Match Day, we will be checking ID to verify applicant identities. The name you provide here should match your ID.

Email address

Phone Number

We may contact you by call/text to discuss your responses or details for the in-person match day. Standard rates from your phone provider may apply.

What is your gender?

What is your ethnicity/race?

What city / state / zip do you live?

If you do not live in Washington, D.C. please do not list D.C. Be Specific (e.g. Manassas, Virginia, 20110). This will help us to better determine compatibility of matches based on location.

Are you older than 25?

Yes

Participants must be 25 or older to have their application processed and attend match day.

Birthday

Will you be available to attend our next Match Day Event 10/03/26?

Yes

If you're unable to attend, that’s okay. We will keep your profile in our confidential matchmaking database for future pairings at no extra cost.

Photo of you: Help us find your match! Include 3-4 photos of you taken within the last year to help us get a sense of your energy and ensure we pair you with someone who is genuinely excited to meet you.

We want to see the real you—please avoid heavy filters or sunglasses. Your photos will only be seen by the matchmaking team and will never be shared publicly without your consent. If you cannot submit a photo here, just e-mail us a copy to hello@eventsbyrandco.com. Applications without a photo are incomplete and unable to be processed for matchmaking.

Links to your social media

Optional: IG, LinkedIn, Facebook

Section 2: Tell Us More About You!

Describe your top 5 personality traits.

Examples: Honest, Kind, Confident, Creative, Patient, Ambitious, Loyal, Curious, Arrogant, Lazy, Impatient, Pessimistic, etc.

Are you religious? If so what is your religion?

What are your core values? What gives you meaning in life?

What do you do for work?

Be honest and proud about what you do no matter what.

What's your highest level of education?

Folks of all backgrounds welcome!

If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

What is your most treasured memory?

What would you describe is your physical type?

Are you looking for a serious relationship?

Yes

No, but open

Yes, if you're looking for meaningful long-term connections that will lead to commitment, marriage, children and/or more.

Do you like to travel to other countries outside of the U.S.?

Yes

Yes, but I have not had the opportunity to go yet

What are your interests or hobbies (do you play sports, binge watch reality TV, paint, hike, etc.)?

What type of music do you listen to?

How do you spend Sunday afternoons?

Are you introverted or extroverted? Rate yourself from 1 to 5.

1 Very Introverted – energized almost entirely by alone time, strongly prefers minimal social interaction

2 Mostly Introverted – prefers alone time, socializes occasionally

3 Balanced / Ambivert – enjoys both social interaction and alone time equally, flexible depending on situation

4 Mostly Extroverted – energized by social interaction, enjoys being around people most of the time

5 Very Extroverted – highly outgoing, thrives in social settings, dislikes being alone

What does a successful relationship look like to you?

Do you have children?

Yes, I have children and want to conceive/adopt more children with a partner

Yes, I have children and do not want to conceive/adopt more children

No, I do not have children and do not want children

No, I do not have children but I want children in the future

I’m not sure if I want children

Are you open to a partner who already has children?*

Yes

I’m not sure

Do you have a disability or mental health condition that would require additional support from a partner (e.g. blindness or low vision, migraines, depression, fibromyalgia, arthritis, cancer, or other conditions)?

Yes

For the privacy of participants we do not explicitly ask what these conditions may be.

What is your favorite movie, tv show or book? Why?

Do you like to eat out?

Yes

Yes, but. not often

What is a personal goal you’re currently working toward?

What does getting dressed for a date look like for you?

The Sharp Professional: Polished and intentional. I lean toward tailored pieces, structured silhouettes, and a 'cocktail hour' aesthetic. I dress to impress.

The Effortless Chic: Clean and modern. I prefer high-quality basics, a neutral palette, and a look that feels expensive but not stiff. Sophisticated without trying too hard.

The Statement Maker: Bold and personality-driven. I enjoy unique textures, signature accessories, or a standout piece. I dress to express who I am and start a conversation.

The Sleek Minimalist: Understated and refined. I focus on fit and comfort over trends—think monochromatic sets or premium fabrics that feel as good as they look.

Which of these best describes your personality traits?

Openness (creative, curious)

Conscientiousness (organized, responsible)

Extraversion (outgoing, energetic)

Agreeableness (empathetic, cooperative)

Neuroticism / Emotional Stability (sensitive, reactive)

More than one may apply to you. However, please select the trait that BEST describes you.

What's something you're currently saving up for, big or small?

When it comes to treating myself, I'm most likely to splurge on... (For some all may apply, but choose the best option.)

Unforgettable experiences (Passport stamps, concert tickets, and tasting menus).

Everyday comforts (my home/apartment setup, premium coffee beans, and/or nice car).

Future peace of mind (I get a genuine dopamine hit from watching my savings grow).

Hobbies (skiing, gym memberships, collecting items such as coins, art, wine, etc.)

Clothes, Shoes, Bags (I love to shop)

If I were to live with a partner, my ideal approach to handling rent/mortgage and household bills would be...

The 50/50 Split: We split everything right down the middle, regardless of who earns what. Total independence.

The Proportional Method: We contribute based on income (e.g., if one person earns more, they pay a larger share of the rent so both people have fun money left over).

The Fluid Exchange: One person covers the big stuff (like rent), the other covers the day-to-day (like groceries and utilities), and it all comes out in the wash.

My ideal pace of life looks a lot like...

High energy. (I like packed weekends and always having somewhere to be).

Slow, intentional, and relaxed. (Give me a cozy home routine, a clear line between work and life, and plenty of downtime).

The nomadic adventurer. (I thrive on change, spontaneous road trips, and avoiding getting stuck in a rut).

Chronically balanced. (I work hard on weekdays so I can completely unplug and touch grass on weekends).

Section 3: Relationship History & Intimacy

When it comes your preferred frequency of sex in a relationship, would you describe your preference as:

A few times a week feels right for me

Once a week or every other week is enough

I'm happy with a less frequent, but still intimate, sex life (e.g., once or twice a month)

My desire varies a lot; spontaneity is more important than a set schedule

I'm not interested in sex

Other

List your honest desire and not your fantasy. Everyone has different libidos and that's okay.

How important is intimacy (e.g., cuddling, deep conversation, holding hands, etc.) to you as part of the overall sexual experience?

It's essential; emotional connection is a prerequisite for a satisfying sexual experience

It's important, but not always necessary for sex to be enjoyable

It's a nice bonus, but I value the physical act more

Emotional intimacy happens outside the bedroom; sex is purely physical for me

Which of the following best describes your attitude toward trying new sexual activities or exploring fantasies (within agreed-upon boundaries)?

I am very open to experimentation and actively want to try new things.

I'm open to trying new things that me or partner suggests and I feel comfortable.

I prefer to stick to familiar sexual activities that I know I enjoy.

I have some specific "hard no's" and deal-breakers, but might be open to certain new things.

What is your ideal first date?

Why do you think it's been hard for you to find the right relationship?

Note: please do not write "not sure" or similar non-answers. Do some soul searching! Help us help you

What is the worst date you've been on? Why was it the worst?

Section 5: About Your Preferred Partner

What is the gender identity of your preferred partner?

Are you open to a partner that is not your same race?

Yes

Do you have a preference for your partner's ethnicity/race?

Do you prefer your partner shares the same religion as you?

Yes

It does not matter

Do you prefer a partner who is introverted or extroverted?

Introverted

Extroverted

Doesn't Matter

What is most important to you in a partner?

Are you okay with supporting a partner that has a disability or mental health condition (e.g. blindness or low vision, migraines, depression, fibromyalgia, arthritis, cancer, or other conditions)?

Yes

Maybe - it depends on the condition

What are deal-breakers (or red flags) for you in a relationship?

When it comes to building a home and a future life together, I picture a partnership where...

We have traditional or clearly defined roles so everything runs smoothly and predictably.

We completely throw out the rulebook and split all chores, decisions, and roles strictly 50/50.

It's entirely fluid—we both jump in wherever we are needed most based on the week's chaos.

I focus heavily on building the career side, while leaning on my partner to lead the home front (or vice versa).

Section 6: Personality Pop Quiz

Pick the answer that best describes you on a scale of 1 to 5. Be honest!

For example, it's okay if you like your work space messy.

Please read carefully:

By submitting this form, I confirm and agree to the following:

Terms & Fees: I have read the Terms & Conditions (FAQ). I understand the application fee is non-refundable and that attending Match Day requires a separate fee if I’m selected.
The Match: I understand that participation is voluntary. Events by R & Co. facilitates the introduction; chemistry and outcomes are the responsibility of the participants.
Code of Conduct: Events By R % Co maintains a zero tolerance for harassment, abuse, or non-consensual behavior. Misconduct results in an immediate, permanent ban from our database and events without a refund.
Liability: Events by R & Co. is a facilitation service and is not liable for the individual actions of participants during or after the event.
Accuracy: My submitted information and photos are 100% accurate. I consent to their use for matchmaking purposes and to receive cycle updates via the community newsletter.
Contact: I confirm that the Events by R & Co. team may contact me about my application and that standard data and messaging rates will apply.

Yes